Friday, August 7, 2009

From Frank in California

Well, as usual with my lovely spouse, California has been an adventure! We have
had a great time with my family in non-humid Newport Beach. My Dad's 89th
birthday was a blast! Christine and Erik came out and Chip was up from San
Diego for the weekend. Carol was in her element. Unfortunately she continued to
have lower back pain throughout the 10 days, but with medication and sleep she
was able to control it. This last Wednesday we saw some wonderful friends from the
CBS board for lunch and then went out to dinner with my family where Carol
looked as our British friends would say "smashing". We were looking forward to
seeing all our dear friends in Oak Park and strategizing how best to
insure Carol would be in top shape to see everyone. (By the way we delayed the
trip by a day so that I could go with my brother Bob to a men's prayer breakfast
at Saddleback Church yesterday morning. It started at 6:30 so we left at 6:00am - hey,
I'm retired and not used to early hours but it was worth it! That church is
really on fire. As you will see following it was most definitely a "God thing")

When I returned just before 9, Carol complained of being nauseous and then in a
span of five minutes twice vomited only blood and couldn't get up. One of my
wonderful sisters-in-law (Michele) came running from her home, took one look and
called an ambulance. At the same time the fiancees of my two nephews showed up to stay
with my folks. Long story short, the ER folks at Hoag Hospital, a great regional hospital,
stabilized her and gave her blood. She was "scoped" early in the afternoon to stop the
bleeding but had bled so much that they could not see the source. She was then taken to
Interventional Radiology where they were able to stop the bleeds thru a catheterization
process. Praise the Lord! Carol spent the night in the ICU where they will monitor her
to make sure they stopped all the bleeding and then at least another two days
for healing and observation.

Needless to say we did not make Oak Park and will be in California a bit longer.
This all has been very scary but the Lord is watching over us and as always
blessing us here with family and a great nearby hospital. Though we wish we were
at Johns Hopkins! We will keep you posted on this at times bumpy journey. I
cannot begin to tell you how much your continued prayers mean to us-please pray
for a speedy recovery and ultimately a complete healing. We are in good hands . . .
our Lord's.

Carol asked to add this verse: "Great is Thy faithfulness. Morning by
morning new mercies we see."

Frank

26 comments:

  1. Frank- sorry to hear of the setback. Hope this finds Carol on the mend. All the best from the Saubers XOXOX and hoping that there are some Brown Med School docs out there that my Mom helped thru med school-- Dick

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  2. I love Carol's verse input. Yes, His mercies are new every morning AND His faithfulness to His children is great-- beyond expectation. Know that you are still wrapped in prayer in so many different ways for healing, encouragement and strength. May you see hope in the days ahead and may you feel His presence, especially now as you are so far away from your familiar surroundings in a new hospital.

    What a frightening complication you've been through, sweet friends. And although we missed our much anticipated get together, we are blessed to know that you are healing and resting in the capable hands of caring doctors there in OC...right where you are supposed to be for the moment. We are comforted to know that God's timing and control was purposeful, even if we don't see the big picture right now. Rest well in His love for you.

    Frank, thank you for writing the update. You are doing a wonderful job and we are thankful that you took the time to get us all up to speed. Love to you both, J and J

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  3. Hi dear Carol and Frank: We are here in Mammoth reading your note with the Dandos. We are all so concerned and offer our prayers for Carol's strength so you can get back to JH. Your trip has been a blessing to all your family, and we're sure everyone is lauding your bravery in the midst of your struggle. We pray for Carol's comfort and returning health and for your strength, too, Frank. We pray for complete recovery and many new mercies. We love you very much, June and Steve

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  4. Dear Frank and Carol,
    We continue to ask the Lord to strengthen you, and give you a big ole dose of endurance---We love you dearly!!!! XO, The DeLucas

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  5. Hi, Frank and Carol,

    Your post, Frank, was received with concern, thanksgiving, relief and additional prayers. Thanks for letting us know of Carol's setback. What a tender mercy that a good hospital was within reach and that she got the help she needed. While His ways often cannot be fathomed, in hindsight they appear so much more clear. I am praying that this time in the hospital will revive and restore .Carol's condtion and build her endurance for your return to the East Coast. It's an honor to be praying and to be lifting all of you up before the Lord, knowing He is in control and that nothing is a surprise to Him.

    Blessings,
    Carolyn Arneson

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  6. Dear Carol and Frank: Bill called us Thursday late afternoon and we were so very concerned. We were excited to plan on seeing you in the evening. To say we are concerned is an understatement, but thankful that you got immediate help and that a good hospital was close by. Get strong, Carol - we will light a candle for you at Mass and get together when you are stronger. We send you our love as always - Brenda and Larry

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  7. Hi Carol and Frank,
    Following the progress up here in Kport, We are with Carol in the ICU, we are with you Frank in the waiting room, we are with Christine and Erik, we love you all and send big hugs and love. Peg phoned Erik and chatted please know that we are here for all with thoughts and prayers.
    Maureen and Peg

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  8. Hi Carol and Frank,
    So sorry to hear about Carol's complications on Thursday. We hope that she is much better today, resting and gaining strength. Our thoughts are with both of you. Love always, Gary & Lori

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  9. Thank you so much for the update, Frank. We continue to pray that God will surround you all with His love and peace and healing power. We love you guys!

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  10. This was not the homecoming we wished for in our home state! We hope that Carol is now doing better and receiving the care that she
    needs. Also, hope that your parents' memories
    will be of the wonderful family gatherings that you have had during your visit.
    You are in our hearts to get home to your
    blessed Shore and to John Hopkins.
    Fondly, The Merrimans

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  11. Dear Carol & Frank,
    We are getting our updates from Erik & Christine. I know you were having a great trip, and were so sorry to hear about your unfortunate hospital trip. Hope all goes smoothly, and you have a safe return to Md. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Wishing you paeace & comfort!
    Love Chuck & Ruthanne

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  12. Dear Carol and Frank,
    I am so sorry about this setback but I'm still so glad you got a chance to see your West Coast loved ones. You have sooo many people who love you, truly GLOBAL support. Your faith seems to get stronger with every test, its an inspiration to all of us! As always continued thoughts and prayers.
    Carol B.

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  13. Dear Carol and Frank,
    The great thing about your blogs is that, although sometimes a little frightening, they give an almost instantaneous and specific "sitrep" calling for instantaneous and specific prayer. That is so cool and definitely part of God's big plan.
    Peter Balch
    p.s. I sent an e-mail to your home with some pix for Carol.

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  14. Dear Frank and Carol,

    Frank, that you so much for taking the time to write and include us in your journey. It is such a privilege to pray with and for you. Great IS God's faithfulness, even when we don't understand it, and He displays it differently than we would choose. I am praying for each day's mercies . . . that they will sustain, encourage and uplift you. And of course, we continue pray for complete healing.

    sue m

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  15. Dear Carol & Frank,
    We are So saddened by this turn of events, in what was suppose to be a special trip for you both. Frank, we appreciate the update. They say things happen for a reason, and obviously your delay to Oak Park was meant to be. At least you are at a good hospital facility and with your family nearby. I pray that you will may a speedy recovery, so that you can get back home to your own doctors', and the rest of your family. We were excited to see you both, but are thankful you are in good care. God Bless you both. Get home soon.
    Love you forever,
    Carol & Jeff J. OP

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  16. we send our thoughts and prayers for Carol and your family.
    Marty and Mary

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  17. Frank, thank you so much for this update. We're so very sorry that this setback occured in the midst of your California trip. How fortunate you were with family and so near to excellent medical care. Please give Carol our love. Hang in there, Nancy & Jack

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  18. Hi Carol and Frank, Kippy and I are praying for you with all the strength we have. We want you back in Washington with friends and family sharing the good times we've had before. Everyone at the Ethics Resource Center has you in their thoughts and prayers. May God bless you! Kippy and Steve Potts

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  19. Frank and Carol,

    We will definitely keep praying!! God can do anything!

    Scott and Denise

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  20. Dear Carol and Frank, I do hope by now Carol is feeling better and the bleeding is completely stopped. I keep praying for those nasty tumors to go away and for complete healing for our sweet Carol. Frank, you have been amazing in keeping us all posted on Carol's journey. Just want you to know what a "knight in shining armour" you are to my sweet friend and sister in Christ. Such a super husband and brother in Christ. Praying for you both. With our Love in Christ, Lowrie and Bob

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  21. Dear Carol and Frank, It is now Tuesday, the 11th and I hope that all is stabilized and Carol is getting her strength back. We miss you, but know you are with family and friends. You both seem to have an incredible network of both. My prayers have been continuous, but was just told about a special prayer to St. Joseph that I am beginning in novena form. With all our love. Joe and Pat Lonardo

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  22. Dear Carol & Frank,
    Hope Carol is feeling much better today and getting closer to going home. Stay strong, you have made it thru another tough time. You are like wonder woman!!! You go girl!!!!
    Love you forever,
    Carol J. OP

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  23. Dear Carol and Frank,
    Our love and prayers go out to you. May God arm you with his strength, love and healing -

    Much love,
    Lynne and Jerry

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  24. Hi Carol and Frank, as that huym continues " All I have needed thy hand has provided" that is my prayer for the both of you this morning. Reminding you that all the strength, hope, encouragement, peace, health, guidance, healing, etc, etc, that you need, God's got for you.

    Now unto Him who is able to keep you from falling, may His compassion, grace and mercy, keep you in your hour of need.

    God love you and so do I
    AME Pastor

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  25. Frank and Carol,
    Please know that the senior officers prayer breakfast gang at the Pentagon this morning prayed for the Lord's grace for Carol.
    The "D-2" looks forward to having you back here soon. Love, DB

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  26. Frank and Carol:
    All of your credit union buds are praying for you and sending along positive vibes.
    "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." -- Isaiah 40:31

    We remain, always, your devoted friends and fans.
    Dave and Carolyn

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